I teach pole dancing sometimes as a side job. I have been working out the information for the upcoming events. Many things are being taken into considerations. Some of them were a big surprise to me.
1) This was not one of surprise at all. I have less than 55 days until my wedding. My wedding that is being held in Disney World. So yeah being a wedding planner I'm slightly frantic.
2) I graduate in less than 40 days! Omg I didn't realize that at all. I have bought my class ring and cap and gown but I hadn't dreamed I was this close to graduation.
3) Christmas? Well it's in 49 days.... My stomach dropped. 500 things have to be done along side my wedding and Christmas to get things accomplished.
4) We have some members that want to use pole dancing as a work out for post pregnancy. Most of them are about to pop.
5) I am already frazzled and I am running out of time.
I am deciding to wait until January because there are many things going on. This way more people will be able to attend and participate in our classes. We even have internet class members that will be watching us on the internet.
However, I am going to be discussing some hints, tips, and information below about what to do in the meantime until class starts.
Yoga!!! I cannot stress this enough. You joints, muscles, and strength will thank you. You use your ankles, knees, wrists, hands and feet so much.
Get enough nutrients. You need to get enough calcium, and protein. I do not teach to people who do not bring sports drink and water. I say this because once you step foot in there you do not stop moving. I have a rule if you sit down once you sit down from then on. All drinks must have tops on them.
Get over yourself. I get tired of spending the first three classes with shy students. Yes we have advance dancers. They are creating new moves for you one day. And we don't care what you look like. But be advise that my husband and other husbands will be watching as well as younger children. 90% of people I now teach have kids and husbands.
Wear clothing that appriopate. Like I said we have husbands and kids and want you to treat them with respect. We don't want to see all you have. We use butt glue and we expect you to as well. We do not provide this for you.
I no longer allow yoga pants on my pants. A friend found the perfect shorts this morning for me. Perfect shorts. and I allow leotards as long as there are no rhinestones or metal on them. Same for tops. If your bra top has exposed you best be finding a cover that is flexible with you.
I only allow advanced users to use shoes to practice in. NEVER beginners. Beginners clash and fall too much and these poles are new and I want as less scratches and scraps on them as possible.
Beginners you will not start learning routines for a while. Get that thought of your system for a while. I teach you the basics. I do swap up with my sister Bre at the end to teach the others the advanced moves I have created and can perform well.
Beginners I am requiring you that wear your hair up because hair down causes to many accidents until you have the basics down.
New rule cell phones are mine until the second part of class. They get locked up in a filing cabinet draw. (Trust me putting your phone on vibrate and being put in that draw it will be heard if it's an emergency.) After that is when you can leave, practice on your own, etc. But the phone stays on vibrate even then.
The advance dancers pick out the music. It's normally a good mix of things. If you don't like a song well it only lasts up to 3-4 minutes.
These are all I have for now. If I have more I'll let everyone know. I will continue to prepare for classes along with my sisters.
Monday
Friday
Challenge from a Good Friend
So I'm sitting in the RV with Odette while she pins. She turns around suddenly and goes, "Do you have on make-up?" Well no I didn't because we are on a roadtrip and I woke up about ohhh 5 hours ago. I told her I didn't and she smiled at me. "Don't wear any the rest of the weekend."
Woah,-wait what? "I won't if you won't." No make-up.... Hm. I thought it through. Faster time getting ready, no long routine to take it off. "Ok." She smiled at me. So here I am first football of the season for the University of Alabama and I'm not going to wear make-up.
God has a serious sense of humor. I get saved and agree to wait until December to have sex with anyone, including myself and Matthew. Now God puts one of his workers in my presences and somehow manages to get me to not wear make-up. Then again maybe it's me.
I've been trying to keep up with everyone else for so long that I've hit the end of where I can run. Only God can pick me up under my arms and carry me from one edge to the other and hold my hand while I run up the next hill.
I don't think life is like a roller coaster at all looking back over my life. I call it mountain jumping. If life was a roller coaster people would be feeling good while flying down. Tell me one person that when they hit rock bottom says they had a good time. No they want the high point again. Mountain jumping is that. You don't jump with God and you fall. You are scared, uncertain, and lost. That's sounds more like it. Jump with God and you have a good fun soaring time.
This is a soaring time for me. Nothing is under my feet but I'm looking forward to the other side. What other changes will happen before long? Guess I will be talking to Ridge's friend Edie
Woah,-wait what? "I won't if you won't." No make-up.... Hm. I thought it through. Faster time getting ready, no long routine to take it off. "Ok." She smiled at me. So here I am first football of the season for the University of Alabama and I'm not going to wear make-up.
God has a serious sense of humor. I get saved and agree to wait until December to have sex with anyone, including myself and Matthew. Now God puts one of his workers in my presences and somehow manages to get me to not wear make-up. Then again maybe it's me.
I've been trying to keep up with everyone else for so long that I've hit the end of where I can run. Only God can pick me up under my arms and carry me from one edge to the other and hold my hand while I run up the next hill.
I don't think life is like a roller coaster at all looking back over my life. I call it mountain jumping. If life was a roller coaster people would be feeling good while flying down. Tell me one person that when they hit rock bottom says they had a good time. No they want the high point again. Mountain jumping is that. You don't jump with God and you fall. You are scared, uncertain, and lost. That's sounds more like it. Jump with God and you have a good fun soaring time.
This is a soaring time for me. Nothing is under my feet but I'm looking forward to the other side. What other changes will happen before long? Guess I will be talking to Ridge's friend Edie
Sunday
Just an Update
I have been away for a long time as far as actually writing. For now though I am back.
In the past year I look at how my life has changed.
1) I am no longer a middle 20s girl waiting for the phone to ring to just hear his voice. Used to that thought would strike my stomach and heart to the point it would almost paralyze me. But I realize that if a man wants to walk away from to let them. And I don't need some stupid, worthless idiot from McCalla telling me what to do especially since he is still attached to his my by the nipple and umbilical cord.
2)Another thing I have learned beware of guys that like Bessemer. The water there turns guys into complete disbelieving assholes. And spending time with these people will lower your IQ. Trust me. I know.
3) As much as I try to fight it I can't help but to love the finer things in life. I love shoes that could be a down payment on a car. Food that could be a week's worth of rent. I'm sorry I have the money, you scoff at what I spend. I still give to charity. I don't see you putting $4,000 to St. Jude's and several other charities I see you going to buy crap for a car that still looks like crap when you get extra money so before you dis me watch your step. I dis back and I am not nice.
4) I know my child should be on Toddlers and Tiaras. But that's ok. Unless you've heard my whole pageant story don't judge on me that either. Back up you don't have to live with her I do. I am not having a child that wallows in self pity. I have one that boasts a broad ego and smiles all the time instead of thinking dark demonic things.
5) I don't give a damn if you think I am snob. The way I see I have more confidence than you do then. Just saying.
6) I do love everything my children do. Edward's artwork means the world to me. When Bella gets a tune right on the piano I leap up from whatever I am doing and go congratulate her.
7) I spend a ton of time with my family. We live beside each other. And we travel together. We are best friends.
8) I love traveling and having a busy schedule. I never hear the words out of my children's mouths that they are bored.
9) No I don't clean the house that you see is sparkling clean. I do have a maid. Does she live with me? No but she has specific instructions.
10) Does my disease show on the outside? No. Before all you people start judging on the fact that I have disability tag. Lets see you deal with Crohn's then we will talk. To the point where you can't walk because you stomach is cramping and your ass feels like it is on fire for 4 hours straight. And you have no idea when that feeling will strike. Back up. And for your info I don't always park in the handicap space so get over it the few times that I do.
11) I realized that I don't need people that are going to judge me on my life and actually try to bring me down. I don't need you and its apparent you don't want me around so once again back up and go somewhere else.
12) I have a man that loves me. Respects me. Spoils me. I stay with him. As long as he wants me. And he waited for 3 years to be with me. So done deal.
I feel better. :)
In the past year I look at how my life has changed.
1) I am no longer a middle 20s girl waiting for the phone to ring to just hear his voice. Used to that thought would strike my stomach and heart to the point it would almost paralyze me. But I realize that if a man wants to walk away from to let them. And I don't need some stupid, worthless idiot from McCalla telling me what to do especially since he is still attached to his my by the nipple and umbilical cord.
2)Another thing I have learned beware of guys that like Bessemer. The water there turns guys into complete disbelieving assholes. And spending time with these people will lower your IQ. Trust me. I know.
3) As much as I try to fight it I can't help but to love the finer things in life. I love shoes that could be a down payment on a car. Food that could be a week's worth of rent. I'm sorry I have the money, you scoff at what I spend. I still give to charity. I don't see you putting $4,000 to St. Jude's and several other charities I see you going to buy crap for a car that still looks like crap when you get extra money so before you dis me watch your step. I dis back and I am not nice.
4) I know my child should be on Toddlers and Tiaras. But that's ok. Unless you've heard my whole pageant story don't judge on me that either. Back up you don't have to live with her I do. I am not having a child that wallows in self pity. I have one that boasts a broad ego and smiles all the time instead of thinking dark demonic things.
5) I don't give a damn if you think I am snob. The way I see I have more confidence than you do then. Just saying.
6) I do love everything my children do. Edward's artwork means the world to me. When Bella gets a tune right on the piano I leap up from whatever I am doing and go congratulate her.
7) I spend a ton of time with my family. We live beside each other. And we travel together. We are best friends.
8) I love traveling and having a busy schedule. I never hear the words out of my children's mouths that they are bored.
9) No I don't clean the house that you see is sparkling clean. I do have a maid. Does she live with me? No but she has specific instructions.
10) Does my disease show on the outside? No. Before all you people start judging on the fact that I have disability tag. Lets see you deal with Crohn's then we will talk. To the point where you can't walk because you stomach is cramping and your ass feels like it is on fire for 4 hours straight. And you have no idea when that feeling will strike. Back up. And for your info I don't always park in the handicap space so get over it the few times that I do.
11) I realized that I don't need people that are going to judge me on my life and actually try to bring me down. I don't need you and its apparent you don't want me around so once again back up and go somewhere else.
12) I have a man that loves me. Respects me. Spoils me. I stay with him. As long as he wants me. And he waited for 3 years to be with me. So done deal.
I feel better. :)
Saturday
5 Groups
The last person you...
[made @ xanga.com/surveys_for_nimrods]
ONE: The last person you... dated.
1] Where are they now?: work? home? .... Lmao asleep....
2] Do you still talk?: No
3] Who did the breaking up--you or them?: I did.
4] What's their middle name?: I don't remember
5] How long did you date?: Too Long
6] Are they in another relationship now? How long has it been?:Yeah a long time
7] Did they have any pets? If so, what?: No
8] Are you over this person?: yeah,
9] Did you love this person?: I thought I did
10] What's the best memory you have together?: The night of 3 hours. Lmao the night of prom when he told me loved me before he went to get his gf for her prom...
TWO: The last person you... texted.
1] How old are they?: 21
2] Do they have the same cellphone service provider as you?: mhm.
3] Do you have any feelings for them?: EW no
4] Are they a boy or a girl?: Girl
5] Do you have their number memorized?: i dooo.
6] How far away do they live from you?: Um less a mile...
7] Do they have a text signature? What is it?: nope.
8] What is the conversation about?: Finding out if she was awake
9] Do you think they'll see this survey?: definitely not.
10] Do you talk to them any other way (social networking sites, AIM, MSN, etc.)? Yahoo messenger, Facebook, and just yelling out the window
THREE: The last person you... slept with (virgins: just use the last person you kissed, and replace sex with kiss basically)
1] Were you dating?: We are. :)
2] How long did you know them before doing the deed?: 3 years
3] Would you do it again?: obviousssly.
4] What color hair did they have?: darkkk brown.
5] In comparison to your other crushes/sex partners/exes/whatever, how good-looking were they?: Let me put it this way every girl in our family calls him hulk for his arms and was a Chip N Dale. A perfect 100 out of 10.
6] What made sex with them a bit different than sex with other people?: Because its always creative and full of love
7] Where did it happen last?: In our bed last night
8] What's the age difference between you two?: He is a week older
9] Be honest... was it good?!: I'll put it this way, I'd beg for it if he didn't put out.
10] What's their sexuality (bi, straight, etc.)?: straight.
FOUR: The last person you... gave a ride to.
1] Where did you take them?: Boutique to get her swimsuit and chickfila
2] Did they pay you for the ride?: no lol.
3] How old are they?: She will be 4 in June.
4] What type of music did you listen to in the car?: Pop
5] What seat did they sit in ?: Lol she was sitting in the backseat with her sunglasses on looking at magazine
6] Did they respect your car?: well, obviously.
7] Have they given you any rides?: Lmao that won't be for a while
8] Do they even drive?: No
9] Do you mind driving them around?: naw.
10] Would they do the same for you?: She would love to
FIVE: The last person you... did something illegal with (even small, think downloading music or something =P).
1] What were you doing?: Lmao public sex
2] Were you more nervous about getting caught or them?: Um... Weren't nervous just crazy
3] Would you do it again?: Oh I plan on it.
4] Was the experience thrilling, scary, exciting, or what?: Exciting and thrilling
5] Is this person normally a risk-taker?:Oh yeah
6] What do you think your chances of getting caught were?:Extremely good but we kept our composure
7] How often do you guys do stuff like that?: Whenever the urge strikes
8] Was anyone else around with you?: lots of people were there.
9] Was this your first time doing this illegal act?: nope.
10] Or is it really not THAT big of a deal?: it's not that big of a deal... ha.
[made @ xanga.com/surveys_for_nimrods]
ONE: The last person you... dated.
1] Where are they now?: work? home? .... Lmao asleep....
2] Do you still talk?: No
3] Who did the breaking up--you or them?: I did.
4] What's their middle name?: I don't remember
5] How long did you date?: Too Long
6] Are they in another relationship now? How long has it been?:Yeah a long time
7] Did they have any pets? If so, what?: No
8] Are you over this person?: yeah,
9] Did you love this person?: I thought I did
10] What's the best memory you have together?: The night of 3 hours. Lmao the night of prom when he told me loved me before he went to get his gf for her prom...
TWO: The last person you... texted.
1] How old are they?: 21
2] Do they have the same cellphone service provider as you?: mhm.
3] Do you have any feelings for them?: EW no
4] Are they a boy or a girl?: Girl
5] Do you have their number memorized?: i dooo.
6] How far away do they live from you?: Um less a mile...
7] Do they have a text signature? What is it?: nope.
8] What is the conversation about?: Finding out if she was awake
9] Do you think they'll see this survey?: definitely not.
10] Do you talk to them any other way (social networking sites, AIM, MSN, etc.)? Yahoo messenger, Facebook, and just yelling out the window
THREE: The last person you... slept with (virgins: just use the last person you kissed, and replace sex with kiss basically)
1] Were you dating?: We are. :)
2] How long did you know them before doing the deed?: 3 years
3] Would you do it again?: obviousssly.
4] What color hair did they have?: darkkk brown.
5] In comparison to your other crushes/sex partners/exes/whatever, how good-looking were they?: Let me put it this way every girl in our family calls him hulk for his arms and was a Chip N Dale. A perfect 100 out of 10.
6] What made sex with them a bit different than sex with other people?: Because its always creative and full of love
7] Where did it happen last?: In our bed last night
8] What's the age difference between you two?: He is a week older
9] Be honest... was it good?!: I'll put it this way, I'd beg for it if he didn't put out.
10] What's their sexuality (bi, straight, etc.)?: straight.
FOUR: The last person you... gave a ride to.
1] Where did you take them?: Boutique to get her swimsuit and chickfila
2] Did they pay you for the ride?: no lol.
3] How old are they?: She will be 4 in June.
4] What type of music did you listen to in the car?: Pop
5] What seat did they sit in ?: Lol she was sitting in the backseat with her sunglasses on looking at magazine
6] Did they respect your car?: well, obviously.
7] Have they given you any rides?: Lmao that won't be for a while
8] Do they even drive?: No
9] Do you mind driving them around?: naw.
10] Would they do the same for you?: She would love to
FIVE: The last person you... did something illegal with (even small, think downloading music or something =P).
1] What were you doing?: Lmao public sex
2] Were you more nervous about getting caught or them?: Um... Weren't nervous just crazy
3] Would you do it again?: Oh I plan on it.
4] Was the experience thrilling, scary, exciting, or what?: Exciting and thrilling
5] Is this person normally a risk-taker?:Oh yeah
6] What do you think your chances of getting caught were?:Extremely good but we kept our composure
7] How often do you guys do stuff like that?: Whenever the urge strikes
8] Was anyone else around with you?: lots of people were there.
9] Was this your first time doing this illegal act?: nope.
10] Or is it really not THAT big of a deal?: it's not that big of a deal... ha.
Friday
Another thought and random ideas....
Summer should be coming to an end soon. And oh how I love autumn. The leaves, the crisp air, the food, the smells, and the temperature dropping. I'm going to love spending this time with him. The ability to be warmed up by him and the tenderness from him.
I know I'm going to have doctor appointments and such but there is so much I want to do with him during this time of year. Apple picking is high on my list. And making everything under the sun with the apples: applesauce, apple cider, apple jack (maybe), apple cake, apple jam, apple butter, apple pie, caramel apple, and roasted apple. Make Harry Potter food and read the books. Make pumpkin pie. Cut jack-o-lanterns of all kinds. Drink hot chocolate and play Magic. Find a swing set and swing until it hurts. Take a day trip into the mountains to watch the leaves change colors. Celebrate All Saints Day with him. Celebrate Halloween: watch scary movies, go pumpkin picking with him, carve our pumpkin together, take a hay ride together, go to a haunted house, make scary treats together, go to a costume party and go trick or treating or at least dress up to give the candy out. Play flag football with him. Slow dance while the wind is blowing leaves around. Enjoy a fire outside and finally let him have a smore. Attempt to teach him fencing. Make homemade soup and chili with him. Roast pumpkin seeds. Make homemade doughnuts. Read the ghost stories of Alabama (maybe go to a few?). Enjoy a funnel cake. Go bike riding. Fly a kite. Go to the teaching things at Tannehill. Go on a picnic. Pig out on candy.
Basically fun but romantic things.
I know I'm going to have doctor appointments and such but there is so much I want to do with him during this time of year. Apple picking is high on my list. And making everything under the sun with the apples: applesauce, apple cider, apple jack (maybe), apple cake, apple jam, apple butter, apple pie, caramel apple, and roasted apple. Make Harry Potter food and read the books. Make pumpkin pie. Cut jack-o-lanterns of all kinds. Drink hot chocolate and play Magic. Find a swing set and swing until it hurts. Take a day trip into the mountains to watch the leaves change colors. Celebrate All Saints Day with him. Celebrate Halloween: watch scary movies, go pumpkin picking with him, carve our pumpkin together, take a hay ride together, go to a haunted house, make scary treats together, go to a costume party and go trick or treating or at least dress up to give the candy out. Play flag football with him. Slow dance while the wind is blowing leaves around. Enjoy a fire outside and finally let him have a smore. Attempt to teach him fencing. Make homemade soup and chili with him. Roast pumpkin seeds. Make homemade doughnuts. Read the ghost stories of Alabama (maybe go to a few?). Enjoy a funnel cake. Go bike riding. Fly a kite. Go to the teaching things at Tannehill. Go on a picnic. Pig out on candy.
Basically fun but romantic things.
Sunday
Felt Bright
I looked up to the sky and saw the most brightest star
And I thought of you and said I know where you are
So close, but yet so far away
I miss you is what I really wanted to say
I really, really love you
This love of mine that's waitin' for you is so ever true
So I wish on a star that's so ever bright
For that big day so I can hold u so tight
All night with all of my might
I will never let you out of my sight
And I thought of you and said I know where you are
So close, but yet so far away
I miss you is what I really wanted to say
I really, really love you
This love of mine that's waitin' for you is so ever true
So I wish on a star that's so ever bright
For that big day so I can hold u so tight
All night with all of my might
I will never let you out of my sight
Friday
In Your Arms
There was a moment that I dont know how to explain. There is so much time I wanted to gain. In every thought you are there. I wish to be in your arms together without a care. Your soft lips against mine. I set here and dream about you, it makes my heart shine. One day we can be together and our love will flow like a stream. Only for now I can dream. I am so sorry for now we have to wait. It wont be long, we will be together; it is fate.
---- My favorite that I've wrote in a while. :)
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